I've been reading lately- not that this is new. In my busy schedule I try to get some reading in here and there. Usually it is in the final minutes of the day, in my bed, by the light of a flashlight (as to not disturb my sleeping husband) - and it's usually only for mere minutes due to the fact that I'm on zero energy and one foot in my nightly coma. The latest book I've found interest in is called The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin. I am not necessarily recommending this book- yet. I haven't finished it. I can't totally speak for it. But, I have found it interesting thus far.
This writer set out to find happiness in where she was in her life- not that she was unhappy, she just wanted to take time to really enjoy the stage of life she was in at the time of her writing. I found this intriguing, because I'm the type of person who will find myself in a stage of life and wonder when it will end- kids not sleeping through the night stage, kids telling lies stage, kids being picky eaters stage, kids being picky about what they wear stage. Okay, so my life is revolving around my kids mostly- tends to happen to many homeschooling mothers, I'm sure. Like Grethen Rubin though, I've often thought, "When I get through this stage, then things will be better- I'll be happier"- etc And one day I wake up and realize that I have already passed through the dreaded stage (in fact, I've usually long passed it) and not only did I not find the happiness pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, but I am in knee deep in another stage and again, not happy. Through many of these trips I went from having one child - at 2 years of age to having 8 children- and that 2 year old is going on 17. Where does time go?
So, the idea of enjoying happiness in the stage of exactly where I am sounded perfect.
The book is divided into 12 months, with suggestions that Gretchen found in her research that would bring her happiness. Yes, HER happiness. She is very forward in saying that each person's happiness is going to be different and this is HER journey. Her insight is very interesting though, and I'm enjoying her perspectives.
Some of the suggestions she has include everything from hugging more to starting a blog. While I haven't seen any mention of faith in her journey- yet- I have found interest in her knowledge of happiness comes to one if they stop trying to find it in another person (for her, it was her spouse). She came to the understanding that if you are to find happiness, you have to look at yourself to see why you are not happy.
This isn't a new idea. We can't expect others to make us happy. Such a burden that becomes for that other person. Hmmmm. . . wasn't I looking at my children to bring me happiness by completing stages? Yikes!
Of course true happiness is only found in God. There is that place in us- that "God shaped hole" that only He can fill, no matter how hard we try to fill it with worldly things.
Once we have that understanding, life will be more joyful- more happy.
In the meantime, I am having fun finding the humor in the little quirks in life. Which, by the way, the latest humor in The Clown's life is seeing and laughing at a picture of Mike Myers- I'm not sure why. It's not even a pictue of him in make-up or costume:
OKAY- so maybe looking at Mike Myers is a bit uplifting! I'm at least signing off with a smile.
Surviving myself with happiness and smiles in tow,